Defy Journal

I am a messenger of a past time that offers perspective to this present moment where people live in jealousy, insecurity and lack of fulfillment.

Your hurdles, anchors and whatever situation that’s jacking up your vibe isn’t going to correct itself.Once you decide to sack up and stand up for yourself, your well-being and ambitions,then you’ll experience what you’ve been looking for.

Being weird led me to seek mental health help when my life started to fall apart.Being weird got me out of debt by changing my entire outlook on life.Being weird has led me to keep growing @wedefythenorm bigger and bigger.Being weird has allowed me to not only speak my truth but impact lives daily.   Want more insights? Check out our DEFY podcast episodes

Remember, you’re not alone in your struggles, your just forgetting you must become your own alchemist first before teaching others to turn ordinary metals to gold.Your opportunity won’t be sending an invite, remain present.   Want more insights? Check out our DEFY podcast episodes

Fight the urge to allow others to tell you when and how you can be free.Fight the urge to wait for someone else to free you because that’s just silly.Fight the urge to believe the narrative to the masses for compliance and conformity is just slavery.Fight the urge to give up on yourself because you’re 100 percent worth it to push forward.

This isn’t your yesterday.Who cares you didn’t get all you wanted done.Who cares you got pissed. This is today mofo. This is the day to make change not stay trapped.I used to get held up on not being my best the day prior, which would turn into self doubt and frustration the following day.When I remove myself from a pass or fail scarcity mindset and:1: Change my vibration (exercise)2. Set prioritized; realistic goals3. Forgive myself for being self toxic4. And above all, COMMIT to actionMy entire outlook changes.No body wants to do hard shit, especially if you have just been stacking failures.Don’t forget your WHY, your CORE VALUES, your PRIORITIES and most importantly ACTION. This is a journey to become YOUR BEST SELF and nothing else.

Consider seeing your own life, your own perspective today.The rest of the world will be fine. They have their own problems, and I assure you we have enough ourselves.Oh yeah, dogs are amazing. They see so much in us. It’s Time we see the same.   Want more insights? Check out our DEFY podcast episodes

When I was confused on who I was when I retired from the military, I used to spend my time in the matrix (social media) looking for validation.What I learned was I would be so triggered by others who:seemed happier then mewho appeared to have their lives togetherwho were actually making an impact in their community and society.I would follow/unfollow these people. Talk shit I’m my head about how they were turds before and how they’re full of shit.Through extensive amounts of self reflection and personal development, I realized how sad I actually was inside.Being triggered by everything is a sign of internal work to be done.

The challenge for me is to DO SOMETHING (ACT) with that information I have and not just THINK (motivation) on it.My challenge to you today is to ACT on ONE thing you’ve been wanting to do in life.