WE DEFY THE NORM.
WE LEAD. WE RISE.
We Dont whisper here
What you wear should speak before you do. This isn’t fashion, it’s a declaration.
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NOT A COURSE.A COMEBACK.
You’re not broken. You’re just buried under distractions, burnout, and BS.
This isn’t a “feel good” course, this is a system to snap you out of autopilot, reignite your power, and get your soul back in the driver’s seat.
No fluff. No guru talk. Just real tools to reset, refocus, and rise.
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We’re not just a brand. We’re a rebellion.
Founded in 2018 by former Marine Raider Cody Alford, Defy the Norm exists to equip the bold, the ones who refuse to play small, blend in, or die with their potential untapped.
We don’t follow trends.
We don’t chase acceptance.
We build gear for those who walk into rooms and shift the energy without saying a word.
If you're tired of being told to "stay in line," you're in the right place.
This isn’t fashion.
It’s armor for the mission you were born to lead.
Welcome to the resistance.
Rise. Defy. Lead.
Welcome to the revolution.
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I've got so many different companies black camo flexfit so I had to snag this one!!! The patch on this one is super badass & h8gh quality!!! So glad this company offers a flexfit hat too which seems to be kinda dying out among relevant companies ( I love flexfits ) I may just have to grab me another one of these so I'll have one for work as well!!😁🔥🔥
So glad I found this company!!! This is my 2nd tee and I got 3 more on the way 😁 this one is a 60/40 cotton/poly blend and I absolutely love it I wish the " DO YOU " Tee was available in a 60/40 but either way that's a badass tee too!! If your on the fence about snaggin a shirt from these guys JUST DO IT!!! you will not be disappointed
Just received my edc puck and it couldn’t have come at a better time in my life so I wanna give a big shot out to stefanie for making these! ⚡️⚡️⚡️🌊 of all things edc this one has more value to me than most. You guys rock 🤙🏻 Best wishes with the new retreat/ homestead and animal rescue 🙌🏻
Looks great on my walls and helps motivate me daily. Love it, love it.
I got this more for
Something to remind me that I am capable of making it through difficult situations and to keep a positive attitude. So far it has been doing that, not because of the bracelet but because I can control what I do, but it helps that it’s a front a center reminder daily.
Looks sick in my garage.
Loving the colors on this one!!! If you haven't tried a Defy The Norm tee yet your missing out!!!
Another high quality top notch tee from Defy The Norm!!! This backprint is Brutal!!! Love it!!!
I love this backprint!!! Had to have it!!
This tee goes hard!!!
Great Quality! Great Message!! Fits perfect in my garage where a lot of my time is spent
Shirt fits perfect for an athletic build. Materials are great, overall stoked on my purchase. Happy to support someone like Cody. Will be buying more.
Love the gear from this company! Grest fit, great messages, great story, greater people! Always get compliments whenever im out. Repeat customer for a reason!
That hat is tough and fits great! Get one today!
I absolutely love this flag, it is made with great quality material and really makes a statement. I purchased this for our Veteran community center. I put it up after I received it and all the guys came in the next morning and I said how much they loved it. A lot of our guys took pictures next to it as well.
Also, great packaging, came with stickers and super fast delivery.🇺🇸♥️🤍💙
I have bought multiple T shirts and the Mala bracelets from Defy the Norm and everything I’ve gotten is of great quality. I love that there is a unique description behind each design as well as the bracelets and it makes me that much more proud to wear them in public. I’ve worn the bracelets in normal day to day activity and as a police officer going on a variety of calls and it’s held up great. I always look forward to finding new products from this company to purchase!
